Internet dating site etiquette
The obvious response to this message is ‘no’, because quite frankly, if ‘wanna chat’ is the best you can come up with in an attempt to stand out from the competition then you're going to get nowhere fast.
Your first message, your first point of contact with someone you like the look of on the site, needs to stand out and catch their eye.
• Start with a friendly greeting and end with a friendly goodbye. • If you make a date, arrange to meet in a public place and arrive and leave separately. If the other person doesn't respond in kind, move on.
So refrain from the likes of ‘hi beautiful’, ‘you look nice’ and ‘let’s chat’, and put together a thought-out message that won’t end up in the trash.